Every year for the past couple of years, my family and I take a break from our every day routines. One year we took off of work and school and went ice skating, went to dinner and then went to an event near our home. Last year, we went to West Palm Beach during the Halloween weekend. We laid out on the beach in Miami and even drove down to the Florida Keys. It’s very important for us to break up the monotony of everyday life. I know you’re thinking, “Why is she always talking about taking breaks?”
The short answer is, because it’s important. The long answer is, because it’s absolutely necessary.
When You Know Better…
I became a mom at a young age. As I grew older, and had more kids, I slowly began to realize how quickly time moves. My babies were growing up so fast, and outside of the few birthday memories I had of them, nothing else really stood out. My life was filled with rushing here and there. I never felt like I was taking time to enjoy what was around me.
I don’t have a lot of money, and honestly I realized that I didn’t need it. When you commit to putting time aside for you and your family, you realize that you don’t need a lot of money to make it happen. Flying to Florida with 5 people hit our pockets, but it wasn’t insane. We saved up for the trip. We didn’t do anything too lavish while we were there. We didn’t eat out every night, we bought groceries. The kids were content with the beach and the few museums we found.
They Come First!
Kids don’t require a lot of material objects. They require a lot of your time. Once I realized that one key, I made sure that my family came first. ALWAYS. My job knows that my kids come first. They are flexible with me. I get my work done, as a condition of my employment, but I don’t let it stress my life.
There was a point in time when I would work all the time. I would check my blackberry (now iPhone) at all times of the night and respond to emails. I thought it made me look like a dedicated worker. But then I realized that it affected my time at home. I didn’t think the kids noticed me on my phone since they were engaged in other things, but one day my daughter came up to me and said “You’re always on your blueberry mommy”. LOL!
Now What?
Today, I am trying to figure out when and where we will go for our family day/weekend. I have quite a few events I am planning this year and early next, so it will have to be local.
Get out your pen and pad. Hit up the internet. Find your next destination. It doesn’t have to be far. Start local.
I’d love to hear any ideas you have! Share them!
You just reminded me that I need not take my laptop to the football class that I drive my daughter to. Thank you.
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It’s hard to unplug! But I realized, they notice everything.
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I’m writing a series on exploring your own backyard. Can you go somewhere within a 3 hour drive from you? I bet there is so much to see right in your own state
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I’m looking into a few areas in VA. This will be our first winter outing with the baby.
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LOVE this! I so wish more families would take this into consideration and implement it into their daily lives. We’d be much better off as a family unit!
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It is so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life and miss out on great memories. This inspired me to enjoy more times with my babies.
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Such a good idea! We need to take more family breaks. I also like the idea of exploring your own backyard. Maybe we’ll start there.
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Unplugging is great for the kids and it is great for you too. I have a rule to let my phone die at night. That way I have no excuse for being glued to the phone and it gives me such peace of mind.
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I’m an adult and my family and I make it a point to plan getaways, even to a nearby beach an hour and a half from home. We look forward to flying our kites, enjoying inexpensive, historic tours, shopping at thrift stores and watching fireworks. What a way to de-stress! Works all the time. Great article.
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I bet your kids love you for these random breaks filled with great activities! Awesome job!
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Quality time is so important and it can’t be replaced! Jobs can be replaced but memories with your family, your kids…they can’t! I love the idea of breaking up the normal routine with a little fun. You’re right…it’s necessary!
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I definitely need to remember to unplug after I’m home from work and focus on the little things. Family time is so important.
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I love that you take breaks so that you can enjoy your family. At the end of the day that is the most important. I used to instantly respond to emails and realized I was becoming a slave to work. Taking my work email off of my cell phone has been one of the most liberating decisions I’ve made this year. Everything has a time and a place.
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I love the stories of happy and successful families! However, I still just don’t think motherhood is for me.
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I think “we” time is inclusive of anyone in your life. It’s not just for those with kids. 🙂
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Yes! I am all about giving my kids experiences and creating memories. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve found more value in experiences than stuff 🙂
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Our goal is to get to SeaWorld one of these days with our 3. Thanks for sharing.
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